The Best Bottles for Optimal Oral Development in Babies: A Lactation Consultant's Guide
Why Bottle Choice Matters
A well-designed bottle nipple can help a baby transition between the breast/chest and a bottle more smoothly. Nipple shape plays a key role in supporting oral function and maintaining a comfortable, effective latch. During breast/chest feeding, the breast tissue naturally fills and molds to the baby’s oral cavity, creating full contact with the tongue, palate, and cheeks—something no bottle nipple can truly replicate. However, choosing a triangle or gently sloped nipple shape can better approximate this fit, allowing the baby’s tongue and jaw to move in a more physiologic, natural pattern.
Another important aspect is how the bottle is fed. One of the most optimal methods is a side-lying, head-elevated, paced bottle feeding technique, where the baby controls the flow rather than being in a gravity-fed position. The flow rate of the nipple is also essential for maintaining feeding comfort and coordination—we recommend starting with the SLOWEST flow nipple.
We recommend 4oz or 5oz bottles, since breast/chest milk-fed babies typically don’t need larger (8oz) volumes. Below are some of the bottles we like to use in our practice because they feature a triangle or gently sloped nipple design that best supports natural, responsive feeding.
Pigeon Bottles
The Pigeon Bottle offers a choice of materials to suit your preferences. It comes in plastic and glass options. Each bottle features a sloped shape, silicone nipple. It has a latch line "guide" marker which is great for knowing how far the nipple should go into your baby's mouth. Use the SS flow nipple.
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Lansinoh Bottle also has a great sloped shape nipple. Be Sure to use the XS flow nipple.
The Evenflo Feeding Balance+ STANDARD and WIDE size nipple bottle is another great option.
Some other great bottle options with a sloped shape nipple
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BuubiBottle by Quark
Gulicola Glass Bottle
Numvim Glass Bottle
Nipples to Avoid
When selecting a bottle for your baby, it's equally important to be aware of nipples that hinder proper oral development and feeding habits:
- Flat, Orthodontic or Straw shaped Nipples: The bottle nipples pictured above are nipples we rarely if ever recommend because they can disrupt the natural sucking pattern and may not provide the same support as sloped shape nipples. They can encourage a shallow latch like sucking from a straw rather than wipe mouth latch, which can cause problems for the parent when they baby latches at breast/chest.
- Fast flow nipples: The slowest flow is usually the best for a baby that is feeding both at breast/chest and from a bottle. We mostly advise parents to feed with the slowest flow rate nipple. Occasionally we may need to use faster flow rate, but this is not standard practice. Fast flow rate nipples can cause your baby to gulp, increasing the risk of choking and may lead to improper feeding techniques. You have probably heard the term “nipple confusion”, but this is an inaccurate term, babies are smart and learn quickly. They develop a flow preference because it’s easier to drink from a fast flow nipple and just swallow rather than use the tongue, mouth and jaw muscles to suck from a bottle. Faster flow nipples can also lead to overfeeding. Which brings me to the very important aspect of how to hold and position a baby when feeding a bottle.
Benefits of the Side-Lying, Head Elevated, Paced Bottle Feeding Technique
- This technique encourages babies to feed at their own pace, similar to how they would breast/chestfeed. Research suggests that this can lead to better self-regulation of intake and may help prevent overfeeding. The optimal feeding rate is around 5 – 8 minutes per ounce of milk dependent on baby’s age.
- By keeping the baby’s head elevated, you reduce the risk of milk entering the airway, which is particularly important for babies with feeding difficulties or reflux.
- Feeding in a side-lying position can promote closeness and skin-to-skin contact, enhancing the bonding experience between caregiver and baby.
- The side-lying position, combined with paced bottle feeding, allows the baby to have control over the flow of milk, similar to breast/chestfeeding, which can help maintain feeding skills and preferences.
- Babies fed using this method tend to show fewer signs of distress and discomfort during and after feeding, leading to a more satisfying experience for both the baby and the caregiver
Baby Positioning
- If your baby is a newborn, you can lay the baby on their side, with ear , shoulder and hip in alignment, on your lap. The baby's bottom at your stomach and head towards your knees, the head should be slightly elevated. When baby is older you can position yourself in a laid back position with baby on their side on your chest/ tummy.
- Ensure the baby’s neck is in a neutral position, not twisted or overly flexed.
- Support the baby's back and base of head with your hand or your arm to help maintain this position. The baby’s hips and knees should be slightly bent to maintain comfort.
Bottle Positioning
- Hold the bottle horizontally or at a slight angle. This helps to mimic the way a breast works, allowing the baby to suck, swallow, and breathe in a coordinated manner. The nipple should be filled with milk.
- Encourage the baby to initiate the latch by bringing the bottle nipple to their top lip. You want to wait for the baby to open their mouth wipe to latch on. Don’t force or push the nipple into the baby’s mouth. This helps the baby understand that they can control the feed.
- Allow for pauses during feeding to enable the baby to take breaks, just like they would at the breast. Frequent burping should also be part of the feeding process to help prevent discomfort.
Here is a great video to watch the technique.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mMlv2CfM4jk
In summary, the side-lying, head-elevated, paced bottle feeding technique along with the use of the correct shape and flow rate nipple is an excellent way to enhance the feeding experience but also contributes to the overall well-being of the baby. If you have any more questions or need more information on feeding and lactation support, be sure to contact us. Your bottle feeding or combination feeding journey can be smooth and successful with the right tools!
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